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Comment on Oh Aversion, How I detest thee! by Robert S. Vibert

Robert S. Vibert — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 17:17:22 +0000

I consider shaming to be related to criticizing and blaming, but can imagine scenarios in which shame is not inherent in the criticism or blame attribution. Then again, I do slice definitions rather thin at times.

Comment on Oh Aversion, How I detest thee! by Evertt

Evertt — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 16:47:18 +0000

I think this concept is very good, Robert. Thanks for solidifying this for me. Just one question though. Doesn’t criticizing and blaming, which is on the list presuppose shaming? If so, then the addition of shaming as you propose to the list is only a further clarification.

It is always healthier to interact with others from a positive aspect rather than a negative one. Most of us do normally. With the information presented in this article in mind and with practice and more practice I think many of us would be pleasantly surprised by the results – the healthy positive results.

Comment on Are you being seen? by Ratna

Ratna — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 18:45:46 +0000

Appreciating the Wisdom you’re sharing. Very effective writing with lots to absorb. Thank You Robert

Comment on Excuse me, my past is calling… by lcaquarius

lcaquarius — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 19:53:21 +0000

I love the wording of your writing. From what I’ve experienced, it all rings true. You really know how to get things accross that can be easily related to.

Comment on Managing Emotions? by Change is not just about your thoughts « The world, inside and out

Change is not just about your thoughts « The world, inside and out — Sat, 12 Feb 2011 17:21:01 +0000

[...] written before about the conceit of the prefrontal cortex, that part of our brain that thinks it is charge and tries to overcome our emotions. One of the [...]

Comment on Don’t you understand? by Excuse me, my past is calling… « The world, inside and out

Excuse me, my past is calling… « The world, inside and out — Sat, 12 Feb 2011 17:19:32 +0000

[...] other major concern is the PPE (Problem Processing Engine) in our brain which will invent a reason for these feelings so that we can “solve” that [...]

Comment on How to Successfully Ruin Your Life in 3 Easy Steps by Imaginen

Imaginen — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 11:39:55 +0000

This is brilliant, Robert. I love your sense of writing style, and yeah, there’s the “that’s so true!” factor that made me read to the end….Thanks for a great piece of advice!

Comment on I felt it, so it must be true! by Are you stressed because of someone’s potential reaction? « Awareness Expression Resolution

Wed, 22 Sep 2010 17:56:08 +0000

[...] match experiences with different people to someone new. We see what looks like a familiar pattern, maybe get a feeling about it, don’t verify to ensure that appearances and perceptions match reality and voila, person X is [...]

Comment on Perceptions, perceptions, how they influence us! by What were you expecting? The Spanish Inquisition? « Awareness Expression Resolution

Wed, 22 Sep 2010 17:49:26 +0000

[...] about how the world works was never really all that accurate anyway, as it was so influenced by our perceptions. But it was the best map we had, and we made do with it as best we could. If the world was static, [...]

Comment on The need to be SPECIAL by I feel… that I am really thinking… « Awareness Expression Resolution

Wed, 22 Sep 2010 17:45:41 +0000

[...] of our mechanism to fit it. Using the expression “I feel” to express thoughts is a way to stay safe in the tribe and yet still suggest that one has feelings, albeit ones that are well managed to the point that [...]